Working with Me — When to Start


As a relationship coach with over 40 years of experience, I've helped hundreds of couples find lasting happiness and love.

Something has gone wrong in your relationship — something you just can’t ignore any longer.

It may be that your partner is not meeting your essential  needs, or that the two of you disagree about something so important that you might split up over it. Perhaps it is a betrayal, or something hurtful that happens again and again.

At this point, you may even wonder if your relationship can be saved!

I understand the insecurity, the hopelessness, the hurt and the anger you may be feeling right now. In my more than 40 years of helping couples, I have met many who felt the same way when they first came to me.

That changed, as we worked together to help them overcome the obstacles to having a relationship that brought them:

  • Better mutual understanding and support.
  • More emotional intimacy and closeness.
  • A way to resolve conflicts without angry fights..
  • More passion and affection.
  • Mutual respect.
  • A more equal sharing of household tasks.
  • Most of all, the security of feeling truly loving and loved.


“Making the decision to work with a life and relationship coach is one of the most important commitments I’ve ever made to myself. And I am thrilled that I found Stephen Day to be my coach. He is a gifted and effective coach. who has helped guide me to do the important work of confronting myself and understanding how I get in the way of my life satisfaction.”

Amy L.



“Stephen Day has been my life and relationship coach for many years. His professional, compassionate and insightful guidance has been a crucial component in the development of my life.  As an actress married to a theater director, life in the arts can be unpredictable and highly stressful to a marriage. Stephen’s skill and support remains at the core of his successful assistance to myself and my husband now of 15 years.”

Elizabeth T.



Free, No Obligation, Relationship Renewal Session

The sooner you start working with me, the sooner you can realize real changes in your relationship. But you probably have questions that you need to ask. The best way to get them answered is to book a free 50-minute phone Relationship Renewal Session.

There’s no obligation and no pressure.

In that session, I’ll answer all your questions. Also, we’ll talk about the problems in your relationship and the outcomes you desire. In addition, we’ll have a chance to get to know each other and decide if we will be a good fit for working together.

You’ll leave the session with greater clarity about your relationship, and with clear, actionable next steps.


The call can be for either you alone or for you and your partner.

Just click the button marked “Get Started Now.”

I look forward to meeting you.