For Professionals

A referral resource for colleagues working with clients whose progress is being limited by recurring relational conflict.

You’ve Seen This Pattern

You have a client who is capable, motivated, and engaged. They do good work with you.

And yet their progress is repeatedly disrupted by conflicts at home.

The pattern’s dynamics may be well understood.
It continues anyway, deflecting their energy from their work with you.

What they are able to think and articulate in session does not reliably translate to the moments that matter most in the relationship.

Over time, that pattern begins to severely limit what your work can achieve.

A Focused Referral Option

The Conflict Pattern Reset is a structured, six-week intervention designed to address that pattern directly.

It works with the couple — by Zoom, with both partners present — and focuses on the interaction itself: the sequence of trigger, reaction, and protective response that keeps repeating despite genuine effort to change it.

The scope is narrow. The endpoint is defined.

Its purpose is simple: to remove a specific obstacle that is interfering with otherwise productive work.

The Reset is delivered by Stephen Day — thirty years as a psychotherapist and a decade as an International Coaching Federation–credentialed coach.

When a Referral Makes Sense

This work tends to be a good fit when:

• the client is engaged and making progress, but keeps getting pulled off course by the same relational conflict
• the pattern is clear, but unchanging
• both partners are willing to participate
• the relationship itself is not in question

In those cases, addressing the pattern directly — outside your existing work — is often the cleaner solution.

Choose the Page Relevant to Your Work

The considerations around a referral vary depending on your professional role.

For Psychotherapists →
For clinicians whose individual work is being limited by a client’s recurring relational conflict.

For Executive Coaches →
For coaches whose clients’ professional performance is being affected by relational stress at home.